when a man is falling in love with you you are on his mind in the morning you are on his mind at noon and you were on his mind at night and he wants to be close to you and so this looks like him waking up and sending you the good morning text this looks like him calling you at night with nothing really in particular to say but just to hear your voice because he wants to be close to you when he's falling in love with you he wants to be close to the person who matters most in his life and that's you.
No 2, is he's willing to take it slow.
Now what do I mean by this the man who's falling in love with you is willing to take it slow when it comes to sex he's not critical of you or making you feel embarrassed or judged because you want to take it slow contrary to that the man who's falling in love wants to get busy and wants to get busy now that person is going to be critical and if he wants to get busy who wants to get busy now you want to get busy and down now there's nothing wrong with that but it's important to know that the man who's falling in love wants you to be comfortable he wants
you to feel good and in many cases he actually is putting your pleasure in front of his own so it's important to know that because the man who's falling in love with you is willing and happy to take it slow if that's what feels good to you.
No 3, is he's okay with the gross stuff
Now what does this mean the man who's falling in love with you doesn't expect you to be perfect in fact it's your humaneness that makes you endearing to him there's a bunch of studies that show this but you've experienced this when something that might otherwise be gross when it's someone that you love you're okay with it
you put up with it because it's the person that you love a quick example of this is I remember when I was one of the first loves that I had I was 16 years old my girlfriend my dad and a group of us we all went camping together and when we came back from camping my girlfriend left her shoes in my dad's car and so I went to get the shoes and you know these shoes we've been hiking for a few days I'm looking at the shoes and don't ask me why but I smelled the shoes and they were they were horrible and instead of not like instead of being put off by that I actually found it endearing I was like wow her feet stink as bad as mine do and I found that totally endearing and I asked my dad I said dad is there
something wrong with me the fact that like this I like I'm okay with this in fact like I have affection for the fact that her feet stink as bad as mine do and my dad says son I think you're starting to fall in love with this girl and I'll always remember that because it was it was loving all of the person not just the perfect parts of them or the best parts of them but when you're really falling in love with someone you're loving all of them the perfect imperfections if you will
No 4, is he's willing to do new things go outside of his own comfort zone in order to make you happy
so the guy who's falling in love prioritizes your happiness over his own comfort if you all this is the guy he'll take you to the orchestra because he knows you love classical music even though he doesn't like it or he'll take you to painting and Pinot because he knows you love painting and you love drinking wine and you'll end up painting too romantic owls that just have to be together because they look so cute together don't they or he'll go to your friend's birthday party where he doesn't know a soul because he knows that those people matter to you a man who's falling in love with you will expand himself to include your world because he wants his world to include you and
No 5, is he loves your quirks.
The little things that make you you the stuff that maybe your friends or your family tease you about or even make fun of you for he loves that stuff because it makes you you the fact that you love crazy socks and you've got like a thousand pairs of these socks right or the fact that maybe you snort when you laugh he loves that or the fact that you are a grammar nazi and you're correcting grammar on literally like menus at restaurants or signs on storefronts or for text messages for God's sake or the fact that when you're saving files on your computer you make little noises to save those filesokay or maybe the fact that you draw like me like a five-year-old this is a self-portrait of me actually pretty handsome I think or maybe the quirk that you're scared of squirrels even though they're super cute no Alex I think everyone would be scared of that squirrel can I get us cute squirrel please there you go that's better yeah you're scared because you think it's a rodent but you're super scared of squirrels it's these things that make
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